Would You Use a Male Waxer for Intimate Waxing?

Industry Perceptions vs. Real-Life Data from a Professional Male Waxing Technician
This article explores the feasibility and reality of male technicians offering intimate waxing services to female clients. Based on real industry research, client data, and professional experience spanning over three years in the beauty industry.

The Journey Begins

After qualifying as a male waxing technician in July 2020 from Axiom, I began advertising my services and quickly started receiving inquiries from women interested in intimate waxing. This led me to explore the feasibility of training in and offering female intimate waxing services.

In April 2021, I posed this question to the WaxChat UK professional waxing Facebook group to gauge industry sentiment and determine if there was a market for my services.

Industry Perception: The Initial Response

The responses were mixed, with understandable concerns raised. However, analyzing the feedback revealed interesting insights that influenced my business decision.

40%
YES
Emphasized professionalism over gender, comparing to male gynecologists
45%
NO
Preferred female waxers citing comfort, cultural, or safety concerns
15%
OPEN
Acknowledged personal choice should be respected

Considering that even a small percentage of women might prefer a male waxer, and I would potentially be the only one offering this service in my area, I estimated sufficient demand to justify the investment in training.

Real-Life Client Data: The Numbers Tell the Story

After completing my female intimate waxing qualification with The Beauty Guru in July 2021, the real test began. Here's what three years of data reveals:

112
Female clients served for intimate waxing
1,108
Total Hollywood/Brazilian waxes performed
10x
Average female client return visits
19%
One-time visit rate (female clients)

Comparison: Male vs. Female Client Retention

Interestingly, the data shows that female clients have a higher retention rate than male clients:

This suggests that once female clients experience the service, their initial concerns are often alleviated, leading to stronger client relationships.

Addressing Client Concerns

Key Measures Implemented:

Clear Communication: Personal calls to all new clients for introductions and Q&A
Pronoun Clarity: All correspondence signed with He/Him pronouns
FAQ Documentation: Comprehensive information sheet for all new clients
Educational Video: Candid explanation of the intimate waxing process
YouTube Channel: Demystifying waxing services and aftercare
Client Agreement: Confirmation of video viewing and comfort with stopping treatment
Professional Biography: Personal details including marital status to build trust

1. Transparency and Informed Choice

Every client interaction prioritizes informed consent and comfort. My website clearly indicates that I am a male waxer, meaning those who inquire are making a positive, informed choice.

2. Professionalism and Hygiene Standards

Maintaining the highest professional standards through strict hygiene protocols, continued training and certification, and creating a welcoming, non-judgmental environment.

3. Safety and Trust

Implementing clear boundaries, maintaining a no-pressure environment, and building a strong reputation through consistent professional service.

Client Testimonials

"Ross is incredibly professional and easy to feel comfortable with. He is great at waxing too!"
"Ross does everything possible to make you feel comfortable both before and during the wax... the wax itself has always been perfect!"
"When I first contacted them and realized it was run by a man, I thought it wasn't for me... However, I kept an open mind, gave it a try, and to be honest, all the boundaries I created were unnecessary. Ross is really professional... He keeps a tidy, warm, clean space and he is precise and adept."

Breaking Barriers in the Beauty Industry

While the beauty industry has traditionally been female-dominated, professional expertise and client comfort should transcend gender boundaries. The success of this service model demonstrates that with proper training, transparency, and professionalism, male technicians can successfully serve female clients in intimate treatments.

The Results: Success Through Listening

My goal has never been to change minds, but to provide a safe, professional, and welcoming space for those who choose my services. The data shows that despite initial reservations, many women feel comfortable after their first appointment, with 81% returning for future treatments.

I will continue to listen to feedback, refine my approach, and ensure every client feels respected, informed, and in control of their experience. Professional service, regardless of gender, is built on trust, expertise, and respect for client comfort.

Would you feel comfortable booking an appointment with a male waxer? The conversation continues, and every perspective matters in shaping the future of professional beauty services.